We are so Different..Debbie was more like my shadow and never could learn to walk together until the great court battle with my beloved Uncle. Debbie struggled with her self esteem forever. And this battle taught me to walk with her through the hard times and I found out so many sad things about my Uncle as his very serious gambling debt. He wanted by Aunts money and cared nothing for her care. It tore me apart..but we overcame incredible odds to win her custody! Debbie finally understood my love for her and for herself. It changed us! But my Uncle lost so much more..He slandered my sister and myself. And died suddenly 3 months after Auntie..she 100 years happy and he 59 years fallen.
I learned to walk beside Debbie instead of letting her trail behind!! That made all the difference!!