I called Jazz's home to get some information. Talked to Lori's younger son. I did not say much, he sounded very upset. Just let him know how we all feel, and asked if there was someone else there I could talk to. He is all alone right now, but I promised to call later to get more info.
They don't have any arrangements yet for the funeral. Jazz does know now. It was really hard to do this, because I hate intruding. I was not about to tell Jazz. I agree with Kimbob, it should not have come from us. But she already knows. I will call later or tomorrow. I don't want to miss sending the flowers to the funeral either, so I'm between a rock and a hard place.
As soon as I have more information, I will let you know. If any of you have any suggestions about anything, please share them. I'm not trying to be in charge, just want to get the ball rolling.
And thank you all for the many offers already to send flowers! I won't do anything without checking with you first.