Hi, We have a lot in common too. I will be 50 in June, I am into Genealogy as well, (Have confirmation back to 1650's on my dad's side, Mom's side is another story). My dad's dad was born in Kansas. His parents moved around Kansas for a while but ended up in Indiana. And we brake for cemeteries too. How funny! I found my GGGG Grandmother's grave in a wooded lot next to a private home. It was an old cemetery that was let go and woods grew up around it. The people that bought the house next to it, did not know the cemetery was there until they went walking through the woods. They knew exactly where the grave was that I was looking for. Very nice people.
I am sure you will enjoy it here. It is very addicting so be forwarned.