View Full Version : Where is our vanessa

10-06-2008, 04:05 PM
Last time she was online was Sept.26.She has not been at her Blog either.Does anyone know if she is okay.

10-06-2008, 04:52 PM
Sorry ladies, just been struggling with a lot of personal stuff that has left my head a little bit pear shaped.

Tiffanys Scraps
10-06-2008, 05:06 PM
Well good to know you are alive. Dont know what to tell you to do for the head problems ! Guess we need a party maybe that will help. I got the rum.

10-06-2008, 05:34 PM
Glad to know that you are okay xo.:)

10-06-2008, 06:18 PM
I know too well about the "pear shaped head thingie". Mine was bananas this summer but finally I am feeling more like a tomato............I know.......what am I talking about.....In english........glad your ok and we missed you..:eek:

10-06-2008, 08:20 PM
Glad your ok, hope things will clear up for you.

10-07-2008, 06:36 AM
Thank goodness all's well. :)

10-07-2008, 06:52 AM
glad your okay....hope everything sorts it's self out for you

10-07-2008, 06:31 PM
Good to hear from you Vanessa! Hope things get better and you can return to all of us nuts!!

10-08-2008, 04:46 AM
Good to hear from you Vanessa! Hope things get better and you can return to all of us nuts!!
Thanks everyone. This nut will alway come back like the proverbial bad penny so long as some buddy luvs me. I can't always promise to be a barrel of laughs. My dad is terminally ill (has been for a couple of years now) and with him being so far away and deteriorating so quickly, it has already been like a two year grieving process. His time is getting short now and I am just finding it really hard to cope at the moment. I don't know how much longer he will go on but I will keep on muddling through. Thanks for all your concern

10-08-2008, 05:46 AM
It is so hard to deal with a parent that is illl as it hurts so much to see them become a total stranger in front of our eyes.It hurts to see their personality chnage and what hurts the most is when they look through you like you are not there.It must be devasting for you Vanessa.But we are all here for you xo.:)

10-08-2008, 11:14 AM
So sorry about your dad, Vanessa. And I know it makes it even harder because you can't be there with him. My prayers are with you and a great big hug.

10-08-2008, 12:55 PM
I went through this a few years ago with my dad. I can truly say "I know how you feel"

10-10-2008, 07:13 AM
the same goes here.....
Your in my prayers and miss ya.
a big hugggg comes your way

10-10-2008, 05:09 PM
oh Vanessa so sorry to hear this....i went through this with my dad and was a long way from him also....my thoughts are with you

10-10-2008, 11:41 PM
Oh Vanessa, I feel for you. My dad has been gone almost 7yrs now & I miss him lots.
Thinking of you at this VERY difficult time.

10-11-2008, 10:24 PM
Sorry to hear about your father. I know how hard it is to lose a parent-please take care of yourself and know that we are hear if you want to talk.

10-12-2008, 02:57 AM
My prayers and thoughts are with you Vanessa, sending you a big hug from downunder xxxx

10-12-2008, 04:33 AM
we all luv you Vanessa.Take care xo:)